One Question

Let’s try this again.

Spinning around the sun.

That’s what we’re celebrating. Someone at some time decided that starting from now, let’s keep track of each rotation of the earth on its axis and its rotation around the sun. And we’ll call it January 1st.

So, we made it around again, and we’re going to try to make it around another time.

Okay, so maybe it didn’t happen exactly like that, and I’m sure I could find out how it did happen by looking it up in Wikipedia, but that’s not the point.

The point is that sometimes it’s good or interesting to look at our situation from a different perspective, or higher level. We should ask, ‘why’ more often. Or, what does this mean?

This last year, I think it’s kind of funny that people are grouping all the horrible things that happened into the arbitrary category of the year 2020. And now that we’re in 2021, things will be different. (Or we hope they will.)

But we’re moving in a circle. It’s one continuous round. So things will happen as they happen based on choices and circumstances that occur. We will just categorize them into years because that’s how our finite mind can keep track of things linearly.

I’m going to try and get better.

Better at improving my choices and therefore my situation and happiness.

Because I believe that can happen regardless of what is happening externally around me.

The question I ask myself a lot during vacation or holidays is probably pretty normal for a lot of people. But if you think about it a little more deeply, with the kind of deep questioning and meaning that I mentioned earlier, it is the question of eternity that will generate your own improvement and determine the outcome of your entire life:

“What should I do next?”

Think about it.

Let’s all try to have good answers so we can have a happy new year.


We made it around!




One Goal At A Time (or, This is Probably Garbage)

I’m going to get better, promise.

Have patience.

I do.

…with myself.

Here’s my plan:

Goal #1: post every day.

Goal #2: post something meaningful sometimes.

Goal #3: Post something meaningful almost every day.

I’m still working on Goal #1.

For how long?

Until Goal #2 starts to happen. (It may have already started, but I’m not counting it.)

Eventually Goal #3 will happen.

Probably when I get fed up with posting useless stuff. Or bored with it.

For now, I’m still excited accomplishing Goal #1. It’s a struggle or effort every day. As soon as it becomes effortless is when I get working on the next goals.

I like the freedom of posting garbage.

Hey, it’s my site. I can.

You don’t have to read or listen to any of it. (In fact, it’s probably not worth it yet.)

(Except for the occasional interesting post.)


Before Midnight


Christmas Day

Merry Christmas!

I know there are other holidays around this time, and I really hope people enjoy all their different holiday traditions and celebrations.

It’s okay to say ‘Happy Holidays’ during this time to people because you don’t know exactly what they celebrate.

But today, you can say Merry Christmas, because that’s the holiday today. Even if you don’t celebrate it for religious reasons, it is a national holiday.

Christmas has an interesting history, with all kinds of changes and influences over the years, but I’d just like to recognize the original reason:

that a virgin gave birth to a child per some specific prophecies written in ancient texts. And even though that seems fantastic, the child grew and did some other things that are even more fantastic. And even though the religious sects and government at the time rejected his claim, the message of who he was, which matched prophecies in ancient writings thousands of years earlier, continued to spread throughout the world. And now, a couple thousand years later, most of the world continues to believe in this message, that something divine occurred on a silent night in a no-name town called Bethlehem.

I believe it too.

And it matters.

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Use Your Words

Words are always important.

There are so many to choose from.

And when you put them in a certain order, they create meaning, a message, or a feeling that can affect another person significantly, either positively or negatively.

That’s why writing is so important. And learning to write well is a valuable skill.

We are a text based generation. So much communication is by text. And because we can remove ourselves from the words, they can be quite damaging. They can contain less feeling, compassion, and human connection, which ultimately can cause strife and conflict.

For the peace of humanity, let’s become better writers.

It is possible to use a better choice of words in the right order to convey feeling, connection, and compassion.

Thank you so much for reading this. I really appreciate it.

(See, that wasn’t so hard.)


Events to Remember

Christmas is coming…

And also a wedding…

So, many things to do, but it’s all about joy.

Joy in remembering and celebrating an event that happened a long time ago, and one that will happen soon, and will be remembered for a long time after.

Joyful events are important to have and remember.

We should have more of them.


Looking forward to…




Wise Words

“If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening, be patient. It may be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.”


This is one of my favorite quotes.

You think that it is going to be some wise advise, but it actually is very practical and literal, just like Winnie the Pooh.

And there’s the wisdom.

Sometimes we complicate things, when in reality, the answer is quite simple.

Be patient.


This Might Not Work


Creating Experiences

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Change the Change

I heard an interesting quote today,

“If you can’t change your company, change your company.”

Person who left the Boeing company

It makes sense. They had a difficult time feeling like they could make any significant changes in the company, so they left. And I could see why someone would think this is a good idea. I even think it probably is a good idea if you really feel powerless.


My premise is that you have more power than you think. And the reason you can’t change things is because you don’t know how. You don’t know the strategies, or the fine details of how to start a movement of change within a corporation.

That is where I can help you. I may not have the silver bullet, but I think there is always hope. And ways to maneuver around the bureaucracy.

Life will find a way!